Rozstańmy się na rok

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Rozstańmy się na rok, podarujmy sobie rok głuchej ciszy, sprawdźmy, czy nasza miłość zacznie skomleć z bólu i wołać o tę swoją zaprzysiężoną w dniu ślubu drugą połówkę… Takimi słowami można by opisać główny wątek powieści, po którą sięgnęłam, gdyż miałam ochotę na niebanalną opowieść o miłości. I nie zawiodłam się.

Tytuł: Rozstańmy się na rok
Autor: Taylor Jenkins Reid
Wydawnictwo: Amber

Rozstańmy się na rok autorstwa Taylor Jenkins Reid to książka, która w zgrabny sposób splata kilka historii o miłości. Zaakcentowane zostały różnice pomiędzy poszczególnymi związkami. Możemy ponadto zaobserwować, że każdy z nich ma swoje charakterystyczne okresy.

Najważniejszą parę – Lauren i Ryana – poznajemy, kiedy ich związek wydaje się w rozsypce. Męczą się w swoim towarzystwie. Nie pamiętają, dlaczego są razem, dlaczego tak długo to trwa. W końcu padają najbardziej bolesne dla serca słowa, mówiące o tym, że chyba już się nie kochają. I wtedy, szukając sposobu na uratowanie prawie wygasłej miłości, wpadają na dość absurdalny pomysł. Postanawiają rozstać się na rok, zerwać kontakt, odpocząć od siebie, może spróbować zbudować nowe gniazdko z kimś innym, przemyśleć wszystko i dopiero wtedy zdecydować, co dalej z tym małżeństwem. Lauren opowie o swojej miłości od samego początku, od pierwszego spotkania do momentu rozstania, od czasów studenckich, kiedy nie mogli bez siebie z Ryanem wytrzymać, aż do dnia, kiedy nie mogą wytrzymać razem. Poznamy także rodzinę Lauren. Przede wszystkim brata, który z lekkoducha wyrośnie na odpowiedzialnego mężczyznę i stanie się oparciem dla kobiety. Posłuchamy rad babci, niezastąpionych, pełnych mądrości poprzedniego pokolenia. Poznamy matkę, która boi się stabilizacji, rutyny, utraty namiętności, i siostrę jako najlepszą przyjaciółkę, nieco niepewną siebie, choć pełną ideałów. Czy Ryan i Lauren do siebie wrócą? Czy tak absurdalna decyzja może okazać się lekiem na popsuty związek czy tylko krokiem wygodniejszym niż rozwód?

Bo może nie należy spędzać życia z kimś, kto nie jest ci niezbędny? Czy może nie należy spędzać życia z kimś, kto nie jest ci niezbędny? Czy nie jest tak, że małżeństwo to ma być połączenie dwóch połówek, nie jest tak, że małżeństwo to ma być połączenie dwóch połówek w jedną całość? Czy nie jest tak, że żadna z połówek nie może być w jedną całość? Czy nie jest tak, że żadna z połówek nie może być całością sama w sobie? Że kiedy są rozdzielone, to każda musi czuć, całością sama w sobie? Że kiedy są rozdzielone, to każda musi czuć, że czegoś jej brakuje, że jest niepełna?

Rozstańmy się na rok to powieść utkana z prawdziwych historii – takich, jakie pisze życie,  takich, jakie mogą się przydarzyć każdemu z nas. Niekonwencjonalny jest tylko tytułowy pomysł, idea. Czytając tę książkę, odnalazłam fragment siebie w każdym z bohaterów, i to chyba sprawiło, że obdarzyłam ich taką sympatią. Poza tym opisana historia pozwala podjąć po raz kolejny refleksję nad miłością, życiem we dwoje, związkiem. Uczy, że życie razem to nie tylko kwiaty i uśmiechy, że to ciężka praca, że łatwo o zatracenie. Przekonuje, że ogień należy stale podtrzymywać, bo nikt nie powiedział, że uczucia są wieczne.

Dlaczego jesteśmy tacy? Dlaczego nie cenimy tego, co mamy? Dlaczego dopiero w obliczu utraty czegoś dostrzegamy, jak bardzo jest to nam potrzebne?

Zwróciłam uwagę na jeden zabieg czytelniczy, który zdecydowanie uprzyjemnia czytanie – spotkamy się z dialogami, listami, ale też wewnętrznymi monologami głównej bohaterki. Choć narracja należy w całości do uroczej Lauren, to poznamy także sposób myślenia i spojrzenie na całą sytuację jej męża.

Jest to historia miłosna, którą z całego serca polecam każdemu, kto lubi czytać niebanalne powieści o miłości i życiu. 

To, że potrafisz bez kogoś żyć, nie znaczy, że chcesz.

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